Sex and intimacy counseling and couples therapy

Sex and Intimacy Counseling

Short-term individual and couples therapy for expats in the Amsterdam and Amstelveen area

Evening sessions are now available for couples

Is work getting in the way of fixing your sex life? Don't let that be an obstacle! Schedule your free 15-minute evening consult today.

My name is Debby and I'm dedicated to helping you revitalize your sex life.

If you have concerns about sex and intimacy in your relationship, you’re not alone and I can help you find solutions that work.

With over 18 years of experience as an integrative therapist, plus additional training in sex and relationships, I offer a unique program that combines sex counseling with other forms of couples therapy.

Let's meet!

Talking about sex can be difficult and many clients are nervous taking the first step. I've got you covered! You're welcome to have a free 15-minute consult via phone or meet virtually, with or without your camera on.

Struggling with these concerns?

Low or No-sex Relationship

Do you and your partner have very infrequent sex or have you stopped having sex all together? Do you both want to improve your sex life, but are struggling to find your way back to each other? I can help you reignite your sex life in order to restore physical and emotional intimacy.

Desire and Interest Differences

Are you and your partner experiencing differences in your level of sexual desire or do you have different sexual interests? Both types of desire discrepancy are common in long-term relationships. I can help you overcome these difficulties and create a satisfying sex life.

General Sexual Difficulties

Are you experiencing lack of desire, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, difficulty achieving orgasm or pain during intercourse? Many people struggle with these types of concerns and I can help you find solutions, so these issues no longer inhibit your sex life.

Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM)

Are you currently in an open relationship, or considering it as a possibility for your dynamic? I provide a safe, non-judgmental space to explore your needs, strengthen your relationships, and navigate CNM with clarity, confidence, and care.

What is sex and intimacy counseling?

What is Sex and Intimacy Counseling?

Sex and intimacy counseling is a form of talk therapy that involves providing accurate information about sex, as well as offering specific suggestions and resources on what can be tried, in order to resolve the issue.

Sex counseling is short-term and focuses on helping clients find solutions in the here and now, without delving too much in the past.

What you'll Learn

During the couples therapy program you'll learn how to:

Emotionally reconnect

Figure out what really caused the emotional disconnect with your partner and work towards making a repair

Talk about sex

Practice new communication skills that will help you listen, validate, and empathize with your partner about sex

Reduce sexual shame

Discover your unique sexual template in order to reduce sexual shame and make peace with your sexuality

Understand desire

Recognize what inhibits and what ignites your desire, in order to be more open to new sexual experiences

Enhance satisfaction

Rediscover your partner and learn what they really desire in order to enhance the quality of sexual experiences together

Prioritize your sex life

Resolve blockages that prevent you from prioritizing sex, so that you look forward to sex and no longer see it as a chore

Session Fees

Choose either weekly/bi-weekly sessions or an intensive program.

Couples Therapy: €160 per hour*

*Choose between 60 and 90-minute sessions

  • Evening sessions available

  • Includes an online course

  • Online or in-person sessions

Fees include 21% BTW (VAT)

Please provide 48-hour notice for appointment changes or cancellations. Otherwise, the full session fee will be charged.

**Fees subject to change once per calendar year

Couples Intensive: €2,000 per couple

Best value for money

  • 13 hours of couples therapy

  • Includes an online course

  • Quick, effective results

Fees include 21% BTW (VAT)

Please provide 48-hour notice for appointment changes or cancellations. Otherwise, the full session fee will be charged.

*Fees subject to change once per calendar year

Individual Therapy: €130 per session

Get started making a change today

  • Sessions are 60-minutes

  • Includes an online course

  • Online or in-person sessions

Individual therapy fees are BTW (VAT) exempt

Please provide 48-hour notice for appointment changes or cancellations. Otherwise, the full session fee will be charged.

*Fees subject to change once per calendar year

Interested in individual sex counseling?

For more information about individual sex counseling, please click below

RBCZ

SCAG

VIT

Yellow Wood

Debby Poort, B.A. Psychology
Registertherapeut BCZ®
KvK: 34332610

Contact

+31 (0)6-4263 6882
info@yellowwood.nl

MOC Building
Lindenlaan 75
1185 LC Amstelveen

Directions

Conveniently located for both Amsterdam and Amstelveen.

Bus: 357, 178
(Stop at ‘Sportlaan’)

Free Parking, Close to A9